Economic Hardship
Every day felt like a struggle for my
family in Nigeria. My family often struggled just to survive. Nigeria has been
facing economic hardship for quite a long time due to poor governance. The high
prices of food, job instability, and inflation affected every single family in
the country, including mine. I can remember when I was in grade five, at twelve
years old and I had to stay home and miss school for the whole semester because
my father’s salary was not enough to pay for both my brother’s and my school
fees. My family felt this struggle every day. This economic hardship in Nigeria
pushed my family and me to move to the United States, where we found better
opportunities to restart our lives

Moving to the United States gave my
father a better job opportunity that changed my family’s life. When my family was
in Nigeria, my father worked as a driver, but his salary was very low. There
were times our electricity was cut off because we couldn’t pay on time. Even
though life was hard, he never gave up. The United States gave my father better
opportunities. In Nigeria, even though he had studied nursing he wasn’t able find
a job in his career path. After moving to the United States, he was able to
attend a nursing assistant training program, which helped him get a job at a
hospital where he now works as a nursing assistant. He now earns enough to
provide food, pay bills, and give my family a more comfortable life than when we
were in Nigeria. Moving to Chicago has also given him the chance to save money
and plan something for the future that he would have never been able to do when
we were in Nigeria

In addition, moving to the United States
has provided me access to better education. It has given me the chance to get a
better education and prepare for a good and high-paying job in the future. It has
given me access to good schools and helpful teachers. I can remember when I
started school in Chicago, I was struggling with my social science assignment,
which was about studying some normal basic culture of the United State, and I
really found it hard to understand the assignment. Instead of letting me fall
behind, my teacher stayed every day after class to explain it step by step
until I understood. This moment showed me how much support I have here in this
country, and this motivated me to keep working hard. I can now focus on
learning, gaining important skills, and prepare myself for success. Coming here
has also given me the chance to be able to study law, which I have started
taking classes at Harold Washington College in Chicago. Therefore, moving has
allowed me to be able to work toward becoming a lawyer.

Furthermore, there are no strict gender
rules unlike in Nigeria. Living in Chicago makes me feel safe and comfortable.
I can plan my life, including marriage, without worrying about danger or
struggles. The laws and rules here in the United State protect everyone, and I
can report crimes or unfair treatment without fear, knowing that the system
will protect me. However, in Nigeria what most of the police officers want is
money to take care of their families even if the money is from criminals. For
examples, girls in some part of Nigeria are being married of immediately after
menstruation at a very young age, and nothing is done to stop this. I also
remember that I once wanted to join a chess club back in Nigeria, but people
told me it wasn’t for girls. In the United State, I joined the chess club
without anyone questioning my decision, and these experiences showed me how
much freedom I have. I can live without strict cultural limits and can pursue
my hobbies and career without facing pressure to follow traditional gender
roles, which gives me confidence and independence.

Economic hardship in Nigeria had forced
my family and me to leave Nigeria, but here in The United State, my family and
I found better opportunities, and I found safety and comfort also that wasn’t
possible back home. It felt like a new beginning for my family. Life in Chicago
is not perfect, but it is much better than before. However, I still don’t know,
we might still find even more opportunities as we keep growing here in America.
Thanks for your story! It's a luck thing to live in a fair and stable country~
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DeleteHi, thank you for sharing your story! I am so sorry that you had to go through all these challenges in Nigeria. However, I am so happy at the same time because it seems that you like to be here and you are bulling new and better future here.
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ReplyDeleteThere are similar situations in Ghana as well. I'm glad you feel safe here, in U.S.
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